Many parents are forcing children, feeling poor and poor, rich and rich, but in fact they are stained with the light of their age, of course, the child's growth, of course, like a big blow.
In that era, the difference in educational resources was not so great, and society’s tears were not as severe
In the past, the difference between each child’s growing up may be due to his own choice, or to his own efforts.
But after the 95s began, the child finally grew into a sturdy, personal efforts were indeed very important, but everything was pale in the face of family conditions.
Parents' emphasis on education = Parents' enthusiasm for collecting information on children's progression to school, school choice, or after-school classes
Parental Economic Level = Educational Resources for Children
Sufficiently sufficient information and money collected to start walking a school that might enter a good school, just to open a direction
One less, basically can not find the direction, in the children themselves to continue trial and error, take the detour
Parents also feel that their children are independent and they are completely unaware of their lack of children’s growth.
Cause children to use four years and five years to catch up with others
The end of life is indeed decided by every choice
However, the big choice simply cannot wait for the college entrance examination
Without parents helping you open the sky, you think that the black in front of you is the whole world [doge]
The fruit of the rich, that is, long ago, began to select fertilizer
In particular, the number of hard college entrance exams is getting less and less. Since you recruited this thing, you have to train them step by step.
People have been making mistakes throughout their lives, but after making mistakes, no family gives him time and opportunity to try wrong. Most of the time, children cannot afford to take responsibility.
There are many children who have performed well when they study. Even if they later enter a good university, they cannot succeed without failing to make mistakes and failures.
The best way to avoid this is to honestly find a stable job and not to try more.
But there are also many children who actually have bad reading habits. Indeed, many people will be sour. They say that they are old and spend money at home. They may end up not taking any special top achievements, but their lives are completely lost. After they made a mistake (worse when they were young), they gave them time and money to support them. They tried twice and made three attempts and made mistakes. At least, they were not bad.
Slightly give an example
When I was a child, my classmates didn’t perform well. In the end, high school sent them out to read a noble school. Then I read a university in that country that was okay but not top, and then went to the United States and read a The school that ranks high in the rankings has been tempered by the environment and has become very good looking. Now it has entered the work of the United Nations, and the key people are particularly good and high in emotional intelligence.
It's true that you can sour her. You're awkward, but it's money at home... but that's the price for the goods.
Her parents’ hard-earned rice was cultivated with painstaking efforts.
In fact, her personal efforts are the same... Just like the cranes at the specialist and Tsinghua cranes are all suspended, but the result is totally different.
It’s too arrogant to say so much, not as a child’s point of view.
But as an adult, the future may be a mother's perspective thinking about these
What do I have now, what can I do?
I watched my brother grow up and experienced the intense competition in educational resources.
And the child's growth is like a 10 times faster Sims character. You haven't had time to open a task. He doesn't know what he has done. [doge]
But my own life, my child’s life, is not a person in the Sims. If I fail to die, I’ll be able to sell my ashes for $2 and then come back again [to eat melon] everyone’s life is only once
We can go to today and read a not bad school. There is not a bad job. It is also the light of the era.
The competition will only become more and more intense and the class will become more and more obvious
Everything we have now may even make it difficult for our children to become as good as they are now.
Our parents have long spent the worst time raising children (not children)
I also don’t realize it’s worse now
It can be seen from the difficulty of choosing the money and personal connections needed for a kindergarten that guarantees personal safety.
This is something that can be done without spending a lot of energy in the age of our fathers, but we must do our best in this era.
I've done a lot of strange and useless things in my life and made a lot of mistakes, but now it's OK.
I know that all this has nothing to do with my personal endeavor. It's just that I have been taken off by me and I have another way to go
But I often wonder if I have the qualifications to give my child a decent environment for growth. You can find fun and enjoy the fun. Still have time to continue to find confidence.
What kind of genetic genes have to be found and what kind of economic basis must be laid down?
I am very self-knowledge, will not say what poor and rich are rich and poor
I'm a billing machine myself and I'm unlikely to give birth to a piggy bank
If I give birth to a clever and obedient person who does not go upstairs, I should be wrong.
Our parents are the same as our parents and we can't wait to give us our best.
I want to estimate that we should be the same at that time
But what can we give?
Like I said before
If you don’t go well, then one person is too good. If your partner doesn’t do a good job, you can’t bring him out or get divorced, but the child can’t go back.
Give the child a fairly normal living environment - have a fairly good genetic value - they have to do slightly higher than their own standards for not bad - and then find the subject also have to consider genetic and economic basis
(Each person's standard is not the same, they are happy
Do not say that love does not love, from the economic base and empathy mood talks are moral abduction
Softhearted Virgin Mary, child unlucky I
It's not that I'm playing now and I'm evasive. I don't think I'm not big enough to be a big kid.
Sticking to non-mainstream lines requires strength and strong ability to resist external interference。After all, the gene is not mutated.I probably have to plan abcde for my descendants, really not much time
It was a very self-knowledge of Yangtian sighed
Poor, poor, rich and rich, but a strong humility, not a self-consolation for the weak to surrender
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